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‘Stop Sending Your Sons And Daughters To Live With Priests’ – Catholic Priest, Chidi Philip Warns Parents As He Gives His Reasons

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A Catholic priest, Chidi Philip has warned Nigerian parents to stop sending their young daughters and sons to live with priests for “training”.....TAP TO CONTINUE READING

The young Reverend Father said this is necessary to avoid what he calls “mistakes”.

According to him, nobody is perfect, priests are human, families are human, mistakes happen but there is one mistake parents really must stop making -sending their children to go and live permanently with priests “for training” to become a priest.

He added that keeping children away from the parish rectory is a way to protect the children, the priests, and the church.

In his words:

“For the Sake of the Child and the Priest: Stop Sending your son or daughter to Live With Priests in the parish rectory.

“Recently, I watched a video of VeryDarkMan where a Catholic priest was falsely accused of wrongdoing simply because he welcomed a boy into his parish to help him.

“Thankfully, the truth eventually came out and his name was cleared. Still, I couldn’t help but think of the emotional and spiritual trauma that comes from being wrongly accused, especially when all you wanted to do was help.

“Nobody is perfect. Priests are human. Families are human. Mistakes happen. But there is one mistake we really must stop making, sending our children to go and live permanently with priests “for training” to become a priest.

“The rectory is not a seminary. The priest’s house is not a boarding home. And the priest is not a substitute parent. Yes, children can visit occasionally. They can receive guidance, support, mentorship. But living permanently in a priest’s house is not healthy, not wise, and not safe, spiritually or emotionally.

“And honestly, I don’t even blame many priests. In our culture, it is very difficult to say no to relatives and parishioners. There is pressure. There is expectation. There is the desire to help. Sometimes priests accept simply because refusing would cause misunderstanding or offense.

“But we need to know this, priest’s life is a battlefield. Spiritually. Emotionally. Sometimes even physically. Priests fight battles daily, many of which the public never sees. And when the enemy cannot strike them directly, he can attempt to strike through the people closest to them, including the young people living under their roof.

“Beyond that spiritual reality, there are also human risks. Scandals. Misunderstandings. False accusations. Emotional dependency. Abuse of trust. Broken boundaries. And yes, really dark stories that never should have happened.

Even where there is no wrongdoing at all, the appearance of impropriety is enough to ruin reputations and destroy lives. One careless rumor is enough. One manipulated story is enough. One emotional attachment taken the wrong way is enough.

“How many times have we heard of “Father’s boy” or “Father’s daughter,” where unhealthy attachment, confusion of roles, or spiritual manipulation creeps in? This is not about attacking priests or families. It is about protecting everyone.

“The rectory is not a private house for experimentation with boundaries. It belongs to the Church. And the Church must protect priests and children alike.

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“Honestly, our dioceses need to regulate this culture more strictly. There should be clear rules. No minors living permanently in the rectory. No informal “training to become a priest.” No blurred relationships.

“If your son or daughter is meant for priesthood or religious life, there are seminaries and approved formation houses. These are structured environments with trained formators, not private living rooms with constant visitors, spiritual duties, and unending pressures.

“Let me speak directly to parents. If you currently have a child living with a priest, bring that child home this year. Bring them back to their family. Their normal childhood.

“Some environments are simply not meant for growing vulnerable hearts. Because the truth many won’t say out loud is this. After living in the parish rectory. Some children come out wounded. Some come out good. Some leave confused about faith. Some even walk away from God. Some become atheist and lost respect for priesthood and the church entirely.

“Support priests. Love priests. Respect priests. But don’t turn the priest’s house into a boarding school or a long-term lodging for your child. Protect your children. Protect your priests. Protect the Church. Sometimes the best way to help is to simply say, Father, thank you but my child will stay at home.”

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FRSC confirms nine dead, 10 injured in Bauchi road crash

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The Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) in Bauchi State has confirmed that nine passengers lost their lives, while 10 others sustained injuries in a fatal road crash in the state.....TAP TO CONTINUE READING

CC Apaji Danladi Boyi, the Sector Commander of FRSC,, revealed this on Friday while briefing journalists in his office.

He said the accident occurred at about 6:20 a.m. along the Jama’are–Azare axis of the Kano–Maiduguri Expressway.

According to Boyi, the crash involved a commercial vehicle with registration number KTG 181 ZZ, which was conveying 19 passengers from Gombe to Kano.

“The fatal crash involved a commercial vehicle carrying 19 passengers from Gombe to Kano,” he said.

The FRSC commander explained that preliminary findings pointed to overspeeding, driver fatigue and loss of control as the likely causes of the accident, adding that investigations were still ongoing.

“Our initial investigation suggests that overspeeding and fatigue, which led to loss of control, may have caused the crash,” Boyi stated.

He said FRSC operatives promptly rescued the injured victims and took them to the Federal Medical Centre, Azare, where they are currently receiving treatment.

The remains of those who died were deposited at the hospital morgue for identification and collection by their families.

Boyi added that the corps’ Operation Zero Tolerance was still ongoing across Bauchi State, noting that patrols had been intensified on major highways.

He also warned motorists to obey traffic rules, stressing that traffic volume remained high as many travellers were still returning to their destinations after the yuletide and New Year holidays.

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“Why I didn’t attend my cousin Allwell Ademola’s burial” – Muyiwa Ademola

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Popular Nollywood actor and filmmaker Muyiwa Ademola has explained why he was absent at the burial of his cousin, late actress Allwell Ademola, held in Lagos.....TAP TO CONTINUE READING

The Yoruba movie star addressed his absence in an emotional social media post shortly after the burial ceremony.
Ademola Buried in Lagos Amid Industry Presence

Allwell Ademola’s burial ceremony took place between Thursday, January 8, and Friday, January 9, with her remains laid to rest at a cemetery in the Yaba area of Lagos.

Several notable figures from the Yoruba movie industry attended the ceremony to pay their last respects.

However, fans quickly noticed that Muyiwa Ademola was missing from the event.
Why Muyiwa Ademola Was Absent

Following the burial, Muyiwa Ademola took to his social media page to explain the reason for his absence.

According to him, he was out of the country at the time of the burial and could not return in time to witness his cousin’s final journey.
Actor Pens Emotional Farewell Message

In his tribute, Muyiwa Ademola expressed deep pain over his cousin’s death and reflected on the uncertainty of life.

The actor asked Allwell Ademola to pass his greetings to departed family members, including his father Awofe Ademola and Uncle Adetokunbo Ademola

He wrote:

“It’s a final Goodbye Couz

The saddest part is my not being in the country to witness your final journey back home.

Your death is just another painful reminder that tomorrow is never promised!

Each day we live is deducted from the days we would live on earth, each birthday we celebrate takes us closer to our final birthday!

May we live long, amen.

Sun re o Omo Oba EniObanke Ademola, bami ki baba mi Awofe Ademola, ki Uncle Adetokunbo Ademola… o digba o! O di gbere!”
Netizens Reacts

Following the post, social media users flooded the comment section with condolences and prayers for the Ademola family.

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BREAKING NEWS: 2 brothers allegedly strangle their father to d3ath in Adamawa state

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The Adamawa State Police Command has arrested one of the two brothers accused of brutally k!lling their father in Numan Local Government Area of the state. ....TAP TO CONTINUE READING

The arrested suspect has been identified as David ThankGod, while his younger brother, Joshua ThankGod, remains on the run.

The spokesperson of the command, SP Suleiman Nguroje, who confirmed the development to SaharaReporters on Thursday, January 8, 2026, said David was apprehended in Taraba State.

“He was picked up in Jalingo, the Taraba State capital,” Nguroje disclosed, adding that efforts were ongoing to track down and arrest the fleeing suspect.

On January 3, residents of Numan town were plunged into shock and mourning after the two brothers allegedly strangled their father to d3ath in the early hours of the day.

The deceased, Ogar ThankGod, a well-known businessman in Numan, was reportedly attacked at about 1am at his residence in the Gwe-da-Mallam area of the town.

Sources said the suspects, aged 23 and 25, allegedly carried out the act following a lingering family dispute that had earlier degenerated into a police case.

According to SP Nguroje, investigations revealed that the suspects were called back from Lagos by their sister to address the family crisis, a move that eventually escalated into the fatal incident.

“The matter was already a police case before the unfortunate incident,” the PPRO said.

The k!lling sparked outrage and disbelief among residents, with many describing the incident as one of the most disturbing family tragedies to hit the community in recent times.

The police said investigations were ongoing and assured that the remaining suspect would be brought to justice.

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